How do you deal with negativity?
By: Andrea Schulman (raiseyourvibrationtoday.com) – We all encounter bad vibes from time to time. Being around negative people or having a negative experience can set any of us in a bad mood, even if we pride ourselves on being positive people. In times like these, you might be interested in learning how to stop bad vibes from taking over and sending you into a vibrational tailspin.
So here are a few things you can do to neutralize negativity and get yourself back into a more positive mindset. Be aware, though, that the very first thing you will want to do is accept your negativity. Remember-the goal here isn’t to fight negativity, because that will only bring more of it into your life. Instead, it’s best to allow it to be there and accept it before you attempt to let it go.
In other words, if you’re mad-be mad for a minute. Let it be ok to get out your frustration a little. Release the pressure, so to speak.
Once you’ve accepted your negativity but find yourself ready to release it and move on, try out one of these strategies to let it go!
1. Take a break from whatever you’re doing
If you are in the middle of an activity and you feel bad vibes start to amplify, stop what you’re doing. Take a break and come back to it when you are centered. There’s no sense in trying to tackle your work, do your chores or hold a conversation when you are emitting bad vibes, because you’ll only get bad results. So take a break, and tell yourself you’ll come back to what you were doing when you are in a better vibrational place.
I always think of this funny scene from the movie Anger Management whenever it’s time to take a break. Adam Sandler’s character is stressed out and running late to work and his therapist (Jack Nicholson) makes him stop driving in the middle of the street until he calms down. If this video clip doesn’t load, please click here.
If you aren’t actually “doing” anything but are just thinking about something you’re upset about, take a break from the thoughts. Tell yourself you are going to focus on something else for a little bit and you will think about this problem later when you feel better.
2. Take a nap
Sleep is great because it automatically raises your vibration. When we are sleeping we are connected and our energy is realigned. You might find this strategy difficult when you are angry or anxious, but when you are feeling sad or depressed it is a good one to try out. Before falling asleep, set your intention to wake up feeling refreshed and in a better place.
Meditating is a great way to clear your mind of negative thoughts at any time. When you feel your thoughts and emotions taking a turn for the worse, it can be highly beneficial to take 10 or 15 minutes out and meditate to find your inner peace.
4. Think about something or someone you love intently
What are the three things or people you love most in the world? Identify what they are right now, and when you find yourself wanting to release negativity, pick one and spend a few minutes thinking about all of the reasons why you love them.
I like to think about my children, and how cute I think they are, the funny things they say and do and the unconditional love they give me. I picture my favorite moments with them in my mind and relive some of…
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